question

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

I've an inquiry regarding sex, as...many here seem far more informed than I.

If one is...on top, how does one assure the other party's discomfort is minimized, and their experience is a pleasant one?


[ooc: Adult content, please to be of age]

Comments

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

I'm glad you asked!

[because dear lord he's been dying to talk about something sexual for a long time. either way, he slings an arm around the other Roxas' shoulders and griiins like a madman.]

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

...You are?

[is puzzled but hey, answers are answers]

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

I am, I'll be glad to inform.

[pats his back.]

Now, less painful, huh?

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[nods]

Yes. I'd...like to avoid it as much as I'm able.

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

Well tell me, did you use lube or prepare him beforehand?

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

I did, but I question whether it was sufficient.

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

Something's wrong here. Either you didn't go slow, you didn't use enough lube, or your angle's all wrong.

... or he's too tight and you're too big. In that case, chances are it'll never happen.

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

I've my doubts about being too large, but as I lack experience, mistakes are likely.

I simply know he was hurt and since he'd like to try again I would rather be sure I not repeat that error.

[looks at the floor - the idea of causing pain's genuinely troubling for him]

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

[baps his cheek once or twice with a palm.]

Hey, there's no way to avoid at least a little pain. If the guy's a virgin, it's gonna hurt. The pain goes away after a while though, once you get moving.

Just a nifty tip-- there's never enough lube. You might even need to add more in the middle somewhere. Tip number two, it's only really safe to use one finger to prepare him, but I'm daring and I use two anyways.

Three-- penetration is the worst part. That's the part that's gonna hurt, and you have to wait until you feel his muscles relaxing. If you don't, you could tear something. The whole process is extremely tedious and requires patience.

[makes little hand gestures as he speaks, tail wagging.]

But hey, power to ya' for getting laid.

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[watches that tail whenever it's in view, curious as always, but he's listening]

I will keep those things in mind. The library lacked resources for addressing that concern.

You seem quite informed.

[hasn't a clue what getting laid is, and thus notes it for later]

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

[snickers.]

I've had my own experiences, good and bad.

[--oh god, he doesn't even want to think about jail.]

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

Sorry for those that were negative.

[occasionally spots the other's tail when it flicks into view, pondering, but nothing more]

I hope none were recent.

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

Of course not. My boyfriend still bugs me out a little when he gets sexual. I don't want to hurt him at all.

[that spaded tail just keeps flicking.]

I've changed a lot since the day I first came here.

[yieldingly.livejournal.com]

...Roxas?

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

Yes?

[yieldingly.livejournal.com]

...You don't need to ask...I mean.

[fidget]

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

If you wish to try again, I want to get it right.

[yieldingly.livejournal.com]

...Roxas...

[very quiet]

I am...sorry...

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[leans up to kiss the corner of Riku's mouth]

Please don't be. I should have learned more beforehand.

[yieldingly.livejournal.com]

[can't help the small smile at the kiss]

I should have been stronger.

[sigh]

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[hugs]

From what I have learned I made at least one error, and anyone would hurt. That isn't a weakness on your part.

[yieldingly.livejournal.com]

Truly...?

[leans against and hugs softly]

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[nods]

Yes. I learned how I might do better, but they were mistakes I made.

[yieldingly.livejournal.com]

That is fine...I did not mind, and l would gladly do it again.

[smooch]

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[is quite happy to smooch back, of course]