question

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

I've an inquiry regarding sex, as...many here seem far more informed than I.

If one is...on top, how does one assure the other party's discomfort is minimized, and their experience is a pleasant one?


[ooc: Adult content, please to be of age]

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[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

I'm glad you asked!

[because dear lord he's been dying to talk about something sexual for a long time. either way, he slings an arm around the other Roxas' shoulders and griiins like a madman.]

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

...You are?

[is puzzled but hey, answers are answers]

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

I am, I'll be glad to inform.

[pats his back.]

Now, less painful, huh?

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[nods]

Yes. I'd...like to avoid it as much as I'm able.

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

Well tell me, did you use lube or prepare him beforehand?

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

I did, but I question whether it was sufficient.

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

Something's wrong here. Either you didn't go slow, you didn't use enough lube, or your angle's all wrong.

... or he's too tight and you're too big. In that case, chances are it'll never happen.

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

I've my doubts about being too large, but as I lack experience, mistakes are likely.

I simply know he was hurt and since he'd like to try again I would rather be sure I not repeat that error.

[looks at the floor - the idea of causing pain's genuinely troubling for him]

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

[baps his cheek once or twice with a palm.]

Hey, there's no way to avoid at least a little pain. If the guy's a virgin, it's gonna hurt. The pain goes away after a while though, once you get moving.

Just a nifty tip-- there's never enough lube. You might even need to add more in the middle somewhere. Tip number two, it's only really safe to use one finger to prepare him, but I'm daring and I use two anyways.

Three-- penetration is the worst part. That's the part that's gonna hurt, and you have to wait until you feel his muscles relaxing. If you don't, you could tear something. The whole process is extremely tedious and requires patience.

[makes little hand gestures as he speaks, tail wagging.]

But hey, power to ya' for getting laid.

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[watches that tail whenever it's in view, curious as always, but he's listening]

I will keep those things in mind. The library lacked resources for addressing that concern.

You seem quite informed.

[hasn't a clue what getting laid is, and thus notes it for later]

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

[snickers.]

I've had my own experiences, good and bad.

[--oh god, he doesn't even want to think about jail.]

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

Sorry for those that were negative.

[occasionally spots the other's tail when it flicks into view, pondering, but nothing more]

I hope none were recent.

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

Of course not. My boyfriend still bugs me out a little when he gets sexual. I don't want to hurt him at all.

[that spaded tail just keeps flicking.]

I've changed a lot since the day I first came here.

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

Bugs you out?

[nagging curiosity sure is hard to shove down]

I have changed in some regards, myself. How do you differ?

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

[thumps that tail against his leg, amused by his catlike curiosity.]

Makes me feel awkward, because I view him as someone innocent who's never done anything wrong to have anyone hurt him.

[tilts his head a little.]

I used to want to kill everyone in sight. I hated everyone, I never wanted to be around, and I found it hard to keep from torturing people.

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

[well, very briefly touches it when he gets the chance, drawing his hand back quickly. and he was doing so well with not poking at things]

I see... what is his view? Riku said he did not mind, though I still don't like that he was hurt.

[a hint of surprise flits by on his features, just as soon gone]

That is rather alien to me. Was there reason for it?

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

I'm still not sure. He seems to want to do it, but he hasn't outright asked me.

[taps his palm with the spade of his tail more, not bothered by the fact that he wants to touch it.]

The reason? Well, the tension of five years in jail really wears your nerves thin. It took a lot of bonding and mistakes to calm me down to where I am now, and even still I get urges. Back at home, I was worried about protecting my brother Sora from the bastards that made him hurt and cry. He always thought they were still his friends but I thought Sora was a moron for liking them over me, when I knew I made him smile. So I killed about everyone who has the same face as the people here in the dressing room.

Seeing them again really didn't settle well with me at all.

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

Perhaps he will.

[inspects carefully, nimble fingers touching the spade's point]

Where I am from, one would not experience such urges. I'm unsure why your brother would believe others over you, that being the case, but...much of the decisions others make seem less than sensible.

I can't imagine the reminder would be pleasant.

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

[rolls his shoulders with a shrug.]

I look back and I kind of think how stupid I was. I mean ... I was so in love with him, and he was so blind.

[shakes his head.]

Doesn't matter. I have a better, cuter, and more understanding Sora now. I'm happy how I am.

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

Then that is what matters. If the one you know now makes you happy, the past can't change that.

...Have you always had horns and a tail?

wow way to read the question totally wrong, me.

[jailedbait.livejournal.com]

[shrugs.]

Nope, didn't have 'em 'til about two months ago. I asked a Riku to kill me, and then I went to hell. Soon as I woke up there I had them.

[yieldingly.livejournal.com]

...Roxas?

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

Yes?

[unmasking.livejournal.com]

A reaper mentioned hell before, but it was a foreign concept to me... Why would you want to die?

[yieldingly.livejournal.com]

...You don't need to ask...I mean.

[fidget]