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Honestly, I don't see why so many are interested in pairing me up with someone. Is it so wrong that I'm not in a relationship?

Besides, I don't see why love, and moreover, lust are such necessities here. I'd actually like to know why.

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Any information would be useful at this rate.

Hmmm... do you want the good reasons or the bad reasons first?

I'd like the good first.

I guess that would be easiest.

*he has to think about it a bit, piecing together the things he's learned and experienced*

I suppose that would be the cheesy answers: comfort, belonging, lo-- adoration. Acceptance and trust. Sure you could go your whole life without lo-- caring about anyone, but you'd be lonely. Even in a room full of people, you can feel alone. It's better to have someone with you, to share things with you. Something beyond just being friends. I think that's what lo-- liking someone is supposed to do.

...I see.

[he pauses for a moment, thinking this over and writing a few notes down. Yay dork-like tendencies.]

What about the 'bad', then?

*he's a little surprised that you're actually writing this down -- wtf -- but at least it distracts him as he has to dredge up the bad reasons*

... dominance and control. Sex is one of the most vulnerable things a person can do, and it can be ridiculously easy to control someone using it. Drop a few lines about caring to feed someone's need for the good reasons, fuck them stupid, and you can have someone eating out of the palm of your hand.

...yes, that does seem to be common. That, and people can become addicted to such behavior, yes? And then there are...consequences that come with it as well.

I'm not saying it's the best thing to do, but there's a rush to know that you control someone. That you can say something and they jump to it, like some dog you kick but then feed it a treat when it comes crawling back and shows its belly.

*... no he's not totally empathizing or anything don't be silly*

...yes, but it seems so cruel.

You realize this place is filled with psychopaths and dudes with no Hearts, right?

*has a bit of a frown on his faces, which lightens a bit*

I prefer the good reasons anyway. Once you have that kind of lo-- adoration, you really understand why it's one of the best things in the worlds.

I'll have to keep that in mind, provided that ever happens to me.

*shrugs a little*

Maybe you'll be lucky enough. Some people never find it, which is why they get used. It's a sick cycle sometimes.

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